Updated : Ive found one site that giving tips in order to choose a baby sitter. For first time parent like me, who is clueless into this matter, may view this link. I think it was a good note to be read. :)
Salam readers,
Since I'm about entering my 31weeks in few days time, me and husband start to think, searching, googling, surveying for nursery to sit our baby soon. Frankly speaking we both husband and me did not spend much time to survey as we thought baby still inside, so do not need to rush on nursery. But, thinking of having suami yang sangat pemalu , not-so talkative to be exact, i have made my mind to start from now. ( takkan dah habis confinement, nak masuk kerja baru nak terhegeh-hegeh kan? ) :P So, no problem to take action as early as we can.
being far from parent's house / pil's house , this has forced me to send my baby to nursery ( how i wish i wont) nak tak nak, kena lah juga. kena belajar bagi kepercayaan pada org lain, walaupun sikit. I'allah , lama-lama ok. As my mom pun mengasuh budak jugak, but she+my dad love them soooooo much, sampaikan berhabis untuk mereka pun tak apa. But thats my mom. sangat sayangkan kids. yelah, anak dia pun 2orang saja. tu pun dh besar panjang kan.I cant expect others to be like my mom, well lain org lain caranya.. but at least, bagilah sikit kasih sayang kat anak i so that bila ada perasaan kasih tu, nak buat apa pun kat baby fikir 44kali..huhu
My sisters in law banyak kat kl/selangor. but having them to take care of my son, i have to think twice. Eh, bukan tak percaya..cumanya u know je lah, nowadays ni kalau salah skit,esp duit ringgit ke, makan pakai ke, lebih masa ke,kalau dengan adik beradik ni, sensitiviti tu tinggi sikit. I'm not saying mereka itu ini, sometime we as a parent pun ada benda terlepas pandang, cuma kalau benda-benda tak diingini jadi, for me sedikit susah nak explain/settle. Kalau selagi boleh elak, kami akan cuba elak, tapi kalau dah tak ada pilihan, terpaksa. but i press, selagi boleh elak, i akan elak. :P
Theres a lottttttttt nursery at our neighbourhood actually. like i said earlier either nak percaya atau tak je dengan mereka. Heh. Thats always me! But nevermind, we have shortlisted three places among them. and all of them just take care of 10 or less babies in one time, alhamdulillah. ( Eh, ke ada tempat yang lagi sikit bilangannya?) I have to consider waktu jugak sebenarnya. Working in KL forced me to be on highway as early 6.45am.kalau tak jenuh la nak sampai Setiawangsa nun.
Btw, my kind hearted readers, please share any tips or infos or experience dgn i, what we as parent should know/do (maybe some basic knowledge on nursery).
And, kalau ada sesiapa tahu babysitter/nursery yang ok di kawasan Taman Puncak Jalil, boleh share juga ye. Thansk in advanced! :)
p/s : gerun dan risau bila baca kes-kes dera nowadays. maid pun dah tak boleh nak percaya.Yes, we do have choices. but tak boleh nak memilih sangat. otherwise berhenti kerja, jaga anak sendiri!haha.
p/s: ke ada mak-mak of readers ada ambil upah jaga baby? let me know if yes,yeah?! ( kalau boleh biarlah berdekatan dengan Tmn.Puncak Jalil) :P

8 comments:
kes dera n kes tersedak susu..huhu
topic ni lah yang sentiasa menghantui diri i dari hari pertama i pregnant. pening nak pikir nak cari pengasuh. tapi apekan daye. terpaksa gak beri kepercayaan kat orangkan. kalau tak kene berhenti kejela..huhu
mmgla..aku dulu nak cri bbysitter, smpai tak tidor malam.keep searching dlam pantang.smpai pening.hv to jga jga..dalam pantang, do not over thinking..hoccay?i'allah ok kot kalau antar bbysitter.nursery lebih sesuai untuk 4 years n above.
saya pun tengah runsingkan perkara yg sama. cuti dah nak habis. tp tak tau mana nak letak bb :(. payah betul nak cari penjaga yg boleh menyenangkan hati time kite keje
Hi,
Pasal nak carik nursery/bbsitter utk baby mmg sgt pening kepala. Saya amik extra 1 mth unpaid leave after pantang sbb nak jaga baby, rasa too small utk hantar ke nursery/bbst. My mum n MIL dekat je tapi my mum dah tak larat n my MIL ada small business so selalu bz. Berat tak berat hati, I hntr jugak ke bbst ms my baby umur 3 months. Nursery n bbst mmg ada byk kat my area tp I prefer bbst sbb bilangan jagaan sikit. Cari2 n ada org recommend satu bbst ni. I choosed this one bbst yg jaga 6 orang and ada maid. I ingat sng la hati dia boleh tumpu kat my bb. After a month, hari2 I akan ada yg tak puas hati (bukan terlalu picky tp mmg servis dia tak memuaskan). 2 weeks kat bbst, my baby batuk2 n selsema. I started to worry dari hal kebersihan my bb, hal susu (my bb minum sikit sesangat kat bbst)n health. Allah nak menolong i, my MIL tiba-tiba jual business dia n offer nak jaga my baby sementara dia besar sikit. So now at 4 mths, my MIL start jaga, smua kerisauan I hilang terus. Harap u jumpa bbst/nursery yg ok ya. Kalau boleh hantar kat bbst instead of nursery sbb kes dera n tercekik susu kerap jadi di nursery sbb terlalu ramai budak/bb. Dan, interview la bbst betul2 kalau boleh ya, jgn jadi mcm I, tak interview pjg lebar. Gud luck!
semua orang actually kalau boleh tak nak send anak dierorang ke nursery / babysitter sebab macam-macam berita yang dierorang dengar. Kalau boleh, try berkenalan dengan parents yang biasa antar ke nursery kat area your place yang you nak hantar, and tanya parents tue sendiri about tthe nursery. Clealiness and not too crowded were my first point in choosing nursery...:)
Salam ziarah and salam perkenalan from me...:)
awak dok PUJ bape??
dulu masa lepas habis pantang, duduk kat PUJ 9
habis pantang antar baby kat nursery Nurani
esiya dok situ 3 bln je pastu kitaorg pindah USJ
dan semenjak tu mcm nightmare je rasa, tak jumpa nursery yg sama mcm the 1st one..
nak try ke?? i bagi contact puan suhaida, owner dia
salam, dah dapat ker babysitter? anak saya baru dua bulan ni nak cari gak babysitter, niari hantar dia kat nursery sedih betul mcm tak berjaga jer, kalau ada babysitter bgtau ekk
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